Want to Stop Hurting? Let’s :)

People around me have been hurting .. It made me genuinely sad..

and I felt responsible, i need/ed to do something.

I exist in this world, like you, for bigger reasons, for a greater purpose:

to be whoever i was created to Be and get better at it well because.. i was created to do what i do the way i do it, not the same way others do it..

I am sure you may be, or people in your circle are hurting..?

In my circle, particularly in this period, not 1 or 2 this past week that i knew of .. like Alara .. Sneha.. Sarah ..

[Add in the names of your cherished one’s here],

but several people were hurting. and I was compelled to share a dose of

love,

care,

compassion,

kindness,

support .. 

in my daily chain of kindness started two years ago and now including 102 people!!

and then, sharing things here with you, my precious ones, my world but you get an extended version, well because you have been so generous in your words, comments, and likes, you have been “life” – generous and i am forever grateful to you.

This today my people, goes out to a friend of mine in India..

who hasn’t been doing so well; because we all fall there, don’t we?

Into that pit…? 

But i got a sign of life from them and she reminded me actually that:

We must let things go, and there’s a catch:

When u let it go, it soon turns into your biggest strength: that is,  your story..

 A story u can tell those u choose to tell for the rest of ur life and move people you meet on your way 🙂

Also, ive been to condolences this week…and something happened, something big and magical.

I met a total stranger as i consoled my friend/colleague Sandra standing next to her.

And the young stranger [Celine, as i later was compelled to meet legitimately as i insisted on talking to her one on one;

there was something that pushed me to just STOP and talk to her, dig further..for what turned out to be a most beautiful human connection with someone who for a minute was a complete stranger, and in a minute, became someone unforgettable in my eyes and hers.]

she stared at me for a minute or two, looked at me with eyes that were at once:

sad and full of amazement, of disbelief, of trust;

eyes that wondered how on earth i captured her attention and heart.. to the extent that i made her feel something different than the pain she was feeling  at that moment on that cursed day, when she had to stand there, among so many people, and hold back tears, to say goodbye to her grandmother …

She later admitted, she sensed , “a positive energy” as i passed to share my words and condolences with Sandra..

I cannot explain it, what when Celine and I shared when our eyes locked, as i spoke out my words to Sandra and indirectly to Celine who was standing right next to her..

But it was real my people. It was so magical, a beautiful moment i never experienced before.

I felt .. like i lit her world, even for a fraction of a second, amid her sorrow, tears, and her “pit” .. truly, when you feel you have done that, you feel..

You connected to another human, to a soul that was so in need and in search of some sort of communication or a connection, to let itself outside the shell,

to share pain, concerns, sadness, grief, but all wrapped with the love to the person taken away from her.

My people, when you adjust your attitude, every morning, every hour, every minute of anger or anxiety or depression, 

People around you feel it, 

You connect,

And by sharing this with them, your adjustment,  u feel stronger, empowered, through them. 

#loveyourlife 

You are left with what u exactly need to make it in this life, every time, even if u had to start over, countless times.

#pickyourselfUP and get going:) why tomorrow not today?

All my love, truly,

Joy

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“It’s the little things that count, in every aspect of life.”

July , 22, 2017 at 11.23pm